I wonder about that. Is false kindness false? Or is it kindness? Or, is it only the layer we project to hide our thoughts?
Kindness is defined as, "the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate." The Bible calls kindness one of the gifts of the spirit. Psalm 145:9 says, "The Lord is good to all, and his compassion is over all that he had made." I think kindness may be part of how we show love to each other.
I don't always feel like being kind. And I'm not always kind, but there are times when I act with kindness, in love, even when I don't feel like it. I think that's still kindness.
So when is kindness "false?" Is it when we act out of selfish motivations or with when "kindness" is only the layer we hide behind when we are truly being hurtful? Is it when we are inauthentic? Is it when we the person we are standing with thinks, "If smiles could kill, I would be a goner?" When do we cross the line from kindness when we don't feel like it to kindness that is not kind at all?